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마태락님의 글입니다. ><P>TV 조선에서 옮겨온 내용 </P> ><P> </P> ><P> </P> ><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 8pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: black; LETTER-SPACING: -0.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 107%" 고딕?; ?맑은 107%; LINE-HEIGHT: -0.25pt; LETTER-SPACING: black; COLOR: 11pt; FONT-SIZE: face="맑은 고딕" <FONT><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">아직도 비슷하게 생긴 사람을 보면 무서워요</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">"<BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">어렵게 만난 심리상담사 성추행 피해자는 힘들어 보였습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">인터뷰 중간 중간 말을 멈추고 깊은 한숨을 쉬었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">분을 삭이는 듯 먼 곳을 바라보며 주먹을 쥐기도 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. 5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">년이란 시간이 흘렀지만 아직 두려움과 수치심에서 벗어나지 못하고 있었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">어둡고 웃음기 없는 표정</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">그녀에겐 어떤 일이 있었던 걸까요</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. <BR><BR>"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">세 군데 돌았는데 가장 믿음이 가는 곳이었어요</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">"</SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">우울증으로 목숨을 끊을 생각까지 할 정도로 벼랑 끝에 몰렸던</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨가 신중하게 고른 상담소는 방송에 많이 나온 유명한 곳이었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">분위기도 따뜻했다고 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">그런데 그녀가 찾아간 상담사는 상태가 심각하다며 더 실력 있는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 50</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">대 남자 상담사에게 상담을 받기를 권했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">내담자를 압박하는 방식이지만 효과가 있다는 말에 희망을 가졌습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">하지만 그때부터 문제가 시작됐습니다</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">.<BR><BR>'</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">너도</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> XX</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">기술을 잘 배울 수 있겠냐</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">' </SPAN><BR><BR><SPAN><?xml:namespace prefix = "v" /><v:shapetype id=_x0000_t75 stroked="f" filled="f" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" o:preferrelative="t" o:spt="75" coordsize="21600,21600"><v:stroke joinstyle="miter"></v:stroke><v:formulas><v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"></v:f><v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"></v:f><v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"></v:f></v:formulas><v:path o:connecttype="rect" gradientshapeok="t" o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><?xml:namespace prefix = "o" /><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:shapetype><v:shape id=그림_x0020_5 style="HEIGHT: 212.79px; 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A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨에게 지속적으로 성에 대한 이야기를 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">성관계 기술을 배워 황제의 마음을 사로잡은 중국 황제 비빈의 얘기를 하며</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, '</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">너도 성관계 기술을 잘 배울 수 있겠냐</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">고 하기도 했고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">우울증에 걸린 여자가 누드모델과 유흥업소 접대부 일을 하며 돈을 모으고 심리적 문제를 극복하는 내용의 책을 추천하며 자신은 이런 불법적인 방법보다 더 안전한 방법을 심리상담소에서 구현해 심리 치료를 할 수 있다고 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">압박과 칭찬을 반복하며</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨 심리상담을 진행했습니다</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">한 달쯤 상담이 진행됐을 때</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨에게 각서를 내밀었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">‘상담중 신체접촉이 있어도 법적인 문제를 삼지 않겠다’는 내용이었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">어차피 법적으로 문제가 될 행동을 하면 각서가 효력이 없을 것을 알았기에</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는 사인을 했다고 했습니다</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">이후</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨의 행동은 대담해졌습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">내면에 죽어있는 감정을 일깨워야 한다며 마주보게 하고 자신과 서로의 몸을 만지게 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">그 다음 상담에서</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨에게 옷을 벗으라고 요구했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">속옷을 안 벗으려 하자</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, '</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">아직 극복 못했다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">' '</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">이래서 치료가 되겠냐</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">며 집요하게 다 벗으라고 강요했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">싫다고 거부하는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨의 양 다리를 벌리고 얼굴을 집어넣어 들여다보기까지 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">전문가의 치료방법이겠거니</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">고칠 수 있다는데 한번 해보자며 거부감을 다스리던</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는 점점 이건 아니라는 생각이 들었다고 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">치료가 끝나면 오히려 스트레스가 심해져 매번 폭식을 했습니다</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR>"</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">웃으며 보고 있더라고요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">아</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">즐기고 있구나</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">" </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">결정적으로</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨가 상담이 잘못됐다고 깨달은 건</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사가</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> '</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">본인 몸을 사랑할 줄 알아야 한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">면서 거울을 주며 성기를 그리라고 했을 때였습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨를 보며 빙긋이 웃고 있었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">즐기는 표정이었다고 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">성적인 발언과 접촉이 많았던 상담</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는 원래 성적 학대를 받거나 그에 대한 트라우마가 있던 사람이 아니었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨에게 무리한 요구를 한 뒤 그 행동을 하면 칭찬을 하고 하지 않으면 큰일이 날 것처럼 하며</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨를 길들였습니다</SPAN></FONT><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. <BR><BR>"1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">시간에</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 50</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">만원인데 예약이 밀려서</SPAN></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">.."</SPAN><BR><BR><SPAN><v:shape id=그림_x0020_4 style="HEIGHT: 208.79px; WIDTH: 371.2px; VISIBILITY: visible" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="https://imgnews.pstatic.net/image/448/2019/06/08/2019060790080_2_20190608112022426.jpg?type=w647" o:spid="_x0000_i1028"><v:imagedata src="file:///C:/Users/majih/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image003.jpg" o:title="2019060790080_2_20190608112022426"></v:imagedata></v:shape></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LETTER-SPACING: -0.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 107%" 고딕?; ?맑은 107%; LINE-HEIGHT: -0.25pt; LETTER-SPACING: black; COLOR: 11pt; FONT-SIZE: <BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic; COLOR: black; LETTER-SPACING: -0.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 107%" SPAN <>세계 일류<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN>라는 홍보글로 꾸며진 홈페이지에는<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> '*</SPAN>개월 만에 병이 다 나았다<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN>는 후기가 줄을 잇고 있더군요<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. B</SPAN>씨에게 상담을 받는 비용은 회당 무려<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 50</SPAN>만원에 달했는데<SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN>예약을 하려면 일주일을 기다려야 한다고 했습니다</FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US><FONT face="맑은 고딕"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><SPAN><v:shape id=그림_x0020_3 style="HEIGHT: 194.4px; WIDTH: 346.4px; VISIBILITY: visible" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="https://imgnews.pstatic.net/image/448/2019/06/08/2019060790080_3_20190608112022442.jpg?type=w647" o:spid="_x0000_i1027"><v:imagedata src="file:///C:/Users/majih/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image005.jpg" o:title="2019060790080_3_20190608112022442"></v:imagedata></v:shape></SPAN><o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></SPAN></P></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic; COLOR: black; LETTER-SPACING: -0.25pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 107%" 고딕?; ?맑은 107%; LINE-HEIGHT: -0.25pt; LETTER-SPACING: black; COLOR: 11pt; FONT-SIZE: FONT-FAMILY: 요청하자<SPAN 인터뷰를 위해 확인을 사실><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">B</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사는 며칠 뒤</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, A4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">용지</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">장 분량의 긴 해명을 보내왔습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">요약하자면</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">옷을 벗는 것은 다수의 세미나 참석 후 발전시킨 치료 방법이고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">성기를 그리는 것은 여성민우회 성교육 자료집에 나오는 정상적인 치료법이란 겁니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">하지만 박대령 정신건강임상심리사는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> '</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">성기그리기</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">'</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">는 혼자 있을 때 해보는 자신에 대해 알아가는 과정이지</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">남자 상담사 앞에서 그리라는 건 말도 안 된다고 말했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">문제는 이 상담사가 중고등학교와 정부부처</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">기업 출강을 가고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">여전히 방송에 나오고 있으며</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">심지어 후학까지 양성하고 있다는 사실입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">지금도</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨가 누군가에게 같은 방식의 치료법을 강요하고 있을지 모를 일입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">.</SPAN> <BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">B</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는 종교 관련 심리학을 전공한 종교인이었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">자격증이 있냐고 물었더니</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">본인은</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">만권의 심리 서적 공부 등 자격증보다 더 많은 공부를 했다며 정통이라고 주장하는 심리학자들과 치료방식을 겨루면 이길 자신 있다고 자리를 마련해달라는 답변이 돌아왔습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">병원이나 다른 심리상담소에서 치료가 안 된 사람들을 여럿 고쳤다고요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. 12</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">주 만에 마음의 병을 고치는 상담법입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">물론 그 방법으로 효과가 있었던 사람이 있을지도 모릅니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">하지만 기본 윤리마저 무시한 상담법</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">위험하지 않을까요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">?</SPAN><BR><SPAN><v:shape id=그림_x0020_2 style="HEIGHT: 205.6px; WIDTH: 364.8px; VISIBILITY: visible" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="https://imgnews.pstatic.net/image/448/2019/06/08/2019060790080_4_20190608112022456.jpg?type=w647" o:spid="_x0000_i1026"><v:imagedata src="file:///C:/Users/majih/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image007.jpg" o:title="2019060790080_4_20190608112022456"></v:imagedata></v:shape></SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">우리나라에서 심리상담소를 차리려면 별다른 자격요건이 필요 없습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">심지어 범죄이력이 있어도 상관없습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">실제</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 2017</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">년 상담센터에서 내담자</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">여명을 성추행한 혐의로 구속된 강모씨는 강간미수 전과자였습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">그래서 한국심리학회 등에선 심리서비스법 제정을 추진하고 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">사실상 무자격자들이 상담심리사라는 이름을 달고 활동을 하고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">그로인한 피해가 크다보니 심리사라는 용어를 아무나 못쓰도록 자격제한을 두자는 취지입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">보건복지부나 여성가족부에서 심리상담 관련 자격증을 국가자격증으로 묶어 관리해야한다는 목소리도 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">어찌됐든 상담사 자격에 대한 점검은 필요해보입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR><SPAN><v:shape id=그림_x0020_1 style="HEIGHT: 172px; WIDTH: 306.4px; VISIBILITY: visible" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="https://imgnews.pstatic.net/image/448/2019/06/08/2019060790080_5_20190608112022480.jpg?type=w647" o:spid="_x0000_i1025"><v:imagedata src="file:///C:/Users/majih/AppData/Local/Temp/msohtmlclip1/01/clip_image009.jpg" o:title="2019060790080_5_20190608112022480"></v:imagedata></v:shape></SPAN><BR><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">"</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">의사면허증처럼 당연히 있는 줄 알았어요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">" <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">공황장애나 우울증 등을 호소하는 사람들이 요즘 정신과가 아닌 심리상담소를 많이 찾습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">진료기록이 안 남기 때문이지요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">의사만큼의 자격은 당연히 기본으로 갖췄다고 생각하기도 하고요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">하지만 병원과 달리 상담소는 누구나 차릴 수 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담소를 찾았다가 더 큰 후유증</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">피해를 겪지 않으려면 현 제도 하에선 상담 받으려는 사람 스스로가 상담사의 자격을 면밀히 따져보는 수밖에 없습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">적어도 심리상담 관련 학석사 학위는 있는지</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">수련 과정을 거쳤는지</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">임상심리상담사 등 국가자격증이나 국내 주요학회</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">한국심리상담학회</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">한국상담학회</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">한국심리학회 등</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">에서 지급하는 자격증이 있는지 확인해야 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담 관련 민간 자격증만</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 4600</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">여개라서 인터넷사이트에서 며칠 만에 쉽게 딴 자격증도 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">무엇보다 방송에 많이 나왔다고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">유명인과의 사진이 있다고 현혹되지 말아야 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">"</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">이민 가려고요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">여기서 못 살겠어요</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">" <BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">다시 피해자의 얘기로 돌아가 보겠습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. B</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">상담사와의 상담 이후</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는 우울증을 고치긴 커녕 성적 트라우마와 사람에 대한 의심까지 생겼습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">한동안 상담소도 믿지 못해 가지 못했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">좋은 상담사를 만나</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">년간 치료를 받으면서 그제야 ‘이런 게 심리상담이구나’라고 느꼈다고 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">압박하는 게 아니라 나를 있는 그대로 인정해주는 방식</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">제가 취재한 상담피해자들도 입을 모아 다른 상담사에게 다시 상담을 받기 전까지 ‘무자격자의 상담방식에 문제가 있는지 몰랐다’고 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">특정 상담방식이 올바른 방법인지 여부는 일반인이 판단하기 어렵습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">자신에게 잘못이 있는 것일 거라고 스스로를 탓할 수도 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">다른 사람에게 털어놓기 힘든 고민을 상담받기 때문에 이를 누구에게 묻기도 힘듭니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">때문에 드러나지 않은 피해는 더 많을 것으로 보입니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨가 인터뷰할 용기를 낸 것도 자신 외에 더 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">이상의 피해자가 나오지 않았으면 해서입니다</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">다행히</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> A</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">씨는</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic"> 5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">년 전보다 심리상태가 많이 나아졌습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">하지만 지워지지 않은 상처가 남았습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">요즘도 비슷하게 생긴 사람을 보면 무서워 깜짝 깜짝 놀란다고 합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">피해자인 그녀는 이민을 준비하고 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 돋움체, dotumche, applegothic">. </SPAN><BR><BR></SPAN></SPAN> ><P> </P>