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장경석님의 글입니다. ><P><SPAN>아이가 점점 커감에 따라 육아의 난이도도 점점 올라가는것 같아요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>너무 극성맞게 아이를 키우고 싶은 마음은 없어요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>다만 아이가 성장해나가면서 옳고/그름을 알려주는것<BR></SPAN><SPAN>삶의 가이드라인을 제시정도는 해줄 수 있는 것이 부모의 역할이라고 생각하기에<BR></SPAN><SPAN>요즘은 정말 머리가 복잡하답니다<BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>요즘 또 바쁘단 핑계로 엄마공부를 소흘히<BR></SPAN><SPAN>하다보니 자연스레 아이와의 상호작용도<BR></SPAN><SPAN>삐그덕대는 느낌이라 공부를 좀 했어요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>검색하다보니 오은영 박사님의 부모십계명이 있더라고요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모로써 꼭 지켜야할 것이 분명하다 자체적 판단하에ㅎㅎㅎㅎ<BR></SPAN><SPAN>잊지 않기 위해 한번 더 새겨보기위해 글을써봅니다 :)<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P> ><DIV class="se_component se_quotation quotation_corner"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_fs_T2"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><BLOCKQUOTE class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { -->엄마, 아빠가 꼭 지켜야 할 부모십계명<!-- } SE3-TEXT --></BLOCKQUOTE></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_0_img", "src" : "http://postfiles15.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfNDkg/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjYzOTM5.EL5-kYGVClPOtbDA3NDTi1BfW1MvyYbgRvZJnmy2CzEg.vd4Ib5LyxXepSXsl2_A3mx5KcWo5KvPmqoLOvGou9Lkg.JPEG.niji0629/image_7123162281499787105195.jpg", "linkUse" : "false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1000 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_0_img alt="" src="http://postfiles15.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfNDkg/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjYzOTM5.EL5-kYGVClPOtbDA3NDTi1BfW1MvyYbgRvZJnmy2CzEg.vd4Ib5LyxXepSXsl2_A3mx5KcWo5KvPmqoLOvGou9Lkg.JPEG.niji0629/image_7123162281499787105195.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="IJcHdcgQeNi8Nh9ecU7XVhzNMj0s"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>하나, 아이 말을 중간에 끊지마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이가 무어라 말하고 있을 때<BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모가 중간에 말을 끊어버리게 되면<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이는 부모에게 거절당했다는 생각에<BR></SPAN><SPAN>자신감을 잃게 된다고 해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이의 말을 끝까지 경청하며 아이가 부모에게 전달하고자 하는 바를<BR></SPAN><SPAN>귀기울여 들어주어야 할 것 같아요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_1_img", "src" : "http://postfiles10.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMjk4/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjY1NzM5.1qQYZUn_IpLGnbpcXsVDCtULh7h4veaiHruGm-y2qpgg.VXJ6y5RmtK24yT6DeYAXhNytOlB_PlvlrEX_4buulVYg.JPEG.niji0629/image_2162317641499787057816.jpg", "linkUse" : "false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1000 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_1_img alt="" src="http://postfiles10.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMjk4/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjY1NzM5.1qQYZUn_IpLGnbpcXsVDCtULh7h4veaiHruGm-y2qpgg.VXJ6y5RmtK24yT6DeYAXhNytOlB_PlvlrEX_4buulVYg.JPEG.niji0629/image_2162317641499787057816.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="I5O41eu6655oP6mwY5hg8g554Al4"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B><B>둘, 따뜻한 눈길로 아이를 바라봐 주세요</B></B></SPAN><SPAN class=se_ff_nanummyeongjo><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>무언가를 학습시키는 학습지도나<BR></SPAN><SPAN>밥을 차려주는 것 등은 다른사람도 할 수 있지만<BR></SPAN><SPAN>진심어린 사랑표현은 부모만이 할 수 있</SPAN><SPAN>어요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이와 눈을 맞추고 따뜻하개 바라봐주어야해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>생각해보니 요즘 바쁘단 핑계로<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이의 눈을 바라보지 않은지 좀 된듯해요ㅠㅠ<BR></SPAN><SPAN>한참 언어표현력이 성장하는 시기라<BR></SPAN><SPAN>옆에서 조잘조잘 대는데 아이를 따뜻하게 바라봐 주지 못한것같아 미안한마음이 듭니다.<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_2_img", "src" : "http://postfiles4.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfNDcg/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjY3NjA2.FSVsUSm-DkkoRqKTZ2CGuBuYzs4GzxjJ_b6as0FjjgYg.QN8CBBPSM2GUwMRgzjGwLfCTRuJMwcsFj4wcYecYevYg.JPEG.niji0629/image_2734507301499787006286.jpg", "linkUse" : "false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1000 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_2_img alt="" src="http://postfiles4.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfNDcg/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjY3NjA2.FSVsUSm-DkkoRqKTZ2CGuBuYzs4GzxjJ_b6as0FjjgYg.QN8CBBPSM2GUwMRgzjGwLfCTRuJMwcsFj4wcYecYevYg.JPEG.niji0629/image_2734507301499787006286.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="IXAwEnOlq79EriNuylYeiflPdWkI"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>셋, 여러 사람 앞에서 나무라지 마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>살면서 누구나 망신 당한 기억은 잊고 싶죠<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이의 잘못된 행동을 고치려고<BR></SPAN><SPAN>여러 사람 앞에서 나무란다면<BR></SPAN><SPAN>망신 당한 기억으로 생각하는 아이는<BR></SPAN><SPAN>그 잘못된 행동을 고치는데 오히려 방해가 된다고 해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_3_img", "src" : 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마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모에게 맞으면서 자라는 아이는<BR></SPAN><SPAN>세상이 안전하지 않은곳이라고 느끼게 된다고해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>체벌의 90% 이상은<BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모가 자신의 감정을 다스리지 못한 결과라고 합니다<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_4_img", "src" : "http://postfiles6.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMTkz/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjYyMDk2.A-bg-Uk0vfPdU_tH39Xa5cOuOknGWTR7P09j-BNjZ8Ag.2cflG0-AQsG0Bvuicl2AmSOKF-BggVVVuxkrQ8H2-7Mg.JPEG.niji0629/image_9810934941499786948840.jpg", "linkUse" : "false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1001 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_4_img alt="" src="http://postfiles6.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMTkz/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjYyMDk2.A-bg-Uk0vfPdU_tH39Xa5cOuOknGWTR7P09j-BNjZ8Ag.2cflG0-AQsG0Bvuicl2AmSOKF-BggVVVuxkrQ8H2-7Mg.JPEG.niji0629/image_9810934941499786948840.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="Ii_HObAcJ3wAQU2-gHksiAbXs3uQ"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>다섯, 그렇다고 아이를 버릇없이 키우진 마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>안 되는건 안 된다고 딱 잘라 얘기하세요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>소리지르지 않고도 얼마든지 단호하게 말할 수 있답니다<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> 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class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_5_img alt="" src="http://postfiles8.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMTcy/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjcxOTcy.nVq5tlRtBMCPuG48CePwYrvMcrCOjjUQ_UIS9tIdPxQg.RUzECAvBRpZiFB4gM6176kc6G8GoBIy2AwVy2d2ght8g.JPEG.niji0629/image_4098822881499786930486.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="I4kIwakyunY9HH0Z2n-js32usIK4"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>여섯, 지키지 못할 약속은 절대 하지 마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>사실이 아닌 말로 그 순간만 모면하려 하면<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이는 점점 부모를 믿지 못하게 됩니다<BR></SPAN><SPAN>신뢰가 무너지면 좋은 관계를 유지하기 힘든건<BR></SPAN><SPAN>비단 아이와의 관계뿐만이 아니니까요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" href="http://blog.naver.com/PostView.nhn?blogId=niji0629&logNo=221049373342&beginTime=0&jumpingVid=&from=search&redirect=Log&widgetTypeCall=true&topReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.naver.com%2Fsearch.naver%3Fsm%3Dtab_hty.top%26where%3Dnexearch%26query%3D%25EC%2598%25A4%25EC%259D%2580%25EC%2598%2581%26oquery%3D%25EB%25B0%2595%25EA%25B2%25BD%25EB%25A6%25BC%26ie%3Dutf8%26tqi%3DThuakwpVuF4sstoic8ZssssssdV-287348%26url%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fblog.naver.com%252Fniji0629%253FRedirect%253DLog%2526logNo%253D221049373342%26ucs%3DGzNtVlsPii40#" data-linktype="img" data-linkdata='{"imgId" : "SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_6_img", "src" : "http://postfiles9.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMTY0/MDAxNDk5Nzg3Mjc0NDY0.3M-uSYGpsY0oXce5KgJQuKyfd7z5R9RB8HEYQGNSgwwg.TnTGkN-IKXXs2zGRbBHj2Web5mtsqyokQcWIsiFU9agg.JPEG.niji0629/image_784971741499786917527.jpg", "linkUse" : "false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1000 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_6_img alt="" src="http://postfiles9.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMTY0/MDAxNDk5Nzg3Mjc0NDY0.3M-uSYGpsY0oXce5KgJQuKyfd7z5R9RB8HEYQGNSgwwg.TnTGkN-IKXXs2zGRbBHj2Web5mtsqyokQcWIsiFU9agg.JPEG.niji0629/image_784971741499786917527.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="IRktEgrXLcqZlitT5nStfcMlLgus"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>일곱, 아이가 할 수 있는 일을 대신 해주지 마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>시행착오를 통해 스스로 배울 수 있는 기회를<BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모가 뺴앗는 격이라고 해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이가 스스로 할 수 있을 때까지<BR></SPAN><SPAN>기회를 먼저 주어야한다고 해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" 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src="http://postfiles11.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfNDAg/MDAxNDk5Nzg3Mjc3MTYx.LBE3ILChmUZyhvmRy6piK-G1VfEnGMYwRAIR6hGnR_0g.P5hX8CyWp1W8vo3qDK74H6joq6b4o_SxBTxxCqS2vf4g.JPEG.niji0629/image_6126089701499786886317.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="IHhZXgoAdPUKH_TM0ML5Rh2ooqZA"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>여덟, 자녀에게 사과하는 것을 부끄러워 하지마세요</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이들은 부모를 쉽게 용서해 준다고해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>부모도 사람이니 실수를 할 수 있지요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>실수를 했을 때 아이에게 꼭 사과하세요 <BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV 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"false","link" : ""}'><IMG width=1500 height=1000 class="se_mediaImage __se_img_el" id=SEDOC-1499787986335--1174944534_image_8_img alt="" src="http://postfiles9.naver.net/MjAxNzA3MTJfMjUx/MDAxNDk5Nzg3MjgwNTA1.62ppvOLU9uh1jLtQo44wk_qxDXJWUYdYE4XFbacULbUg.Exe21RPQa3Zt6FjJDsJR3SvPvtYIYZut4LLu0Bj6ALYg.JPEG.niji0629/image_9518885451499786813968.jpg?type=w966" data-attachment-id="InrK4k6spHP_LiPzKOrko-Ska6Ck"> </A></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_paragraph default"> ><DIV class=se_sectionArea> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class="se_viewArea se_ff_nanumgothic se_fs_T3 se_align-center"> ><DIV class=se_editView> ><DIV class=se_textView> ><P class=se_textarea><!-- SE3-TEXT { --><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>아홉, 아이가 </B></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B><I>"엄마 아빠 정말 미워"</I></B></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B>라고 화낼 때</B><BR></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B><I>"</I></B></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B><I>엄마 아빠 저리 </I></B></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B><I>가"</I></B></SPAN><SPAN class="se_ff_nanummyeongjo se_fs_T2"><B> 라고 밀어낼 때</B></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이의 말에 너무 상처받고 속상해 하거나<BR></SPAN><SPAN>아이와 같이 화내지 말아야해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN>그런일이 반복되면 아이가 속마음을 표현하지 않게 된다고해요<BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN><BR></SPAN><SPAN></SPAN><!-- } SE3-TEXT --></P></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV></DIV> ><DIV class="se_component se_image default"> ><DIV class="se_sectionArea se_align-justify"> ><DIV class=se_editArea> ><DIV class=se_viewArea><A class="se_mediaArea __se_image_link __se_link" 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