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박혜정님의 글입니다. ><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt">이 글은 제가 근무했던 고등학교에서 5년간 명상의 시간을 방송하면서 </SPAN></P> ><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt">학생들의 사례를 글로 엮어 방송했던 내용입니다. </SPAN></P> ><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt">요즘 청소년의 문제를 공감하시며 읽어 보세요...^^</SPAN></P> ><P> </P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">주제</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">: </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">가출</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"> <?xml:namespace prefix = "o" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">나는 가출로 이렇게까지 내 인생이 꼬일지 몰랐습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">다른 친구들은 늦게까지 놀다가 들어가도 괜찮은데 난 동행금지가 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">시였고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">,</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">그걸 안 지키면 아빠한테 맞고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">엄마한테 잔소리 듣고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">....</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">그게 너무 싫고 친구들과 더 놀고 싶어서 처음 가출을 했습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">처음엔 집을 나간다는 게 무섭고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">학교를 결석한다는 게 걱정도 됐지만</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">늦게까지 친구들과 돌아다니며 자유롭게 놀고 즐기는 게 너무 좋았습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">집에 잡혀 들어가면 답답하고 짜증나서 두 번</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">세 번 가출을 하게 되고</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">돈이 떨어지면 배가 고파서 차털이와</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">빈집털이</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">특수절도</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">절도를 하며 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">경찰서에 드나들게 되었습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">기소유예</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">보호관찰</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">분류심사원</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">소년원까지</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">...</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">나의 전과는 늘어갔고 부모님 얼굴엔 한숨과 주름만 늘어났으며 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">우리 집 분위기는 나로 인해 항상 어두워졌습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">난 그냥 조금 더 놀고 싶었을 뿐인데</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">,</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">부모님이 날 조금만 더 이해주고 기다려줬으면 이런 일은 없었을텐데</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">...</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">다시 그때로 돌아가고 싶습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">이야기는 내 이야기일 수도 있고 주변 친구들의 이야기 일 수도 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">가출을 사전에서 찾아보면 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">‘</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">가족과 살던 집을 들지고 나감</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">’ </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">이라고 정의합니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">처음엔 아주 단순하게 더 놀고 싶고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">잔소리 듣고 싶지 않아 호기심으로 시작했던</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">가출이 내 인생의 커다란 오점으로 남는 경우가 많습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">가출의 유혹은 중학교 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">학년 시절이 가장 많고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">고등학교 올라와서는 많이 줄어들지만 늦바람이 더 무섭다고 고등학교 때 가출하는 학생들은 경석 일수가 많아져 자퇴나 퇴학으로 연결되는 경우가 많습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-WEIGHT: bold"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">우리는 매 순간 순간 선택을 하며 살고 있습니다</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">순간의 선택이 </SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">년을 좌우 한다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">” </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">는 광고 카피도 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">앞으로 우리는 가족과 살던 집을 등지고 나가는 가출이라는 그런 선택을 해서는 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">안 되겠습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">지금 여러분들은 고등학생이 되기를 선택 했고</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">, </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">지금 고등학생이라는 신분으로 </SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">학교에 등교 해 교실에 앉아 있습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">자신이 선택한 일엔 최선을 다하는 멋진 학생이 되기를 바라며</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">,</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold">학생다운 모습으로 마무리하는 하루가 되었으면 좋겠습니다</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 굴림체; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; LETTER-SPACING: 0pt">.</SPAN></P> ><P class=0 style="LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: both"><SPAN> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> ><P> </P>